I went on a binge of the season. This season got me through a rollercoaster of emotions and got me thinking about my life.
Here are some of the things I took out of this season;
- We all make mistakes in the journey of life. We should not let them become our labels and carry them around like placards. Own up to them, apologize to those you stepped on their toes, and you may be amazed by the outcome at the end of the day.
- Life is short. If you are going through some health issues, tell your family. They are the people who will give you a reason to fight it and become healthy once again.
- Just because you had a dark past, it does not mean you should allow someone to use it to blackmail you out of something that you love. The past is just but a stepping stone to greatness.
- Be open to starting new adventures. They may be your turning point to discovering your hidden talents. Go for it 101%
- We like to stay in our bubble because it’s what we’re good at. We feel we’re loved and we belong while in it. Sadly, it’s only an illusion since a lot is happening outside of it, some of which we have no control over, and will give us the biggest life lessons on how to live our lives much better. Bust that bubble and embrace the unknown before it is too late.
- You need to prepare for something. You have to take the leap of faith.
- Look at your fears and face your problems head-on; you will always finish strong.
- Believe in yourself. Do not let anyone make you feel like you are a failure because you don’t meet their expectations.
- We may be going through a lot as a human race, but one thing that connects us is love. Love lifts us out of the dark when other people attack us and want to take us out. Remember the love of the people who surround you.
- As a parent, remember your primary responsibility to your children is to care for them by making them feel wanted and providing security. You may think they need a flashy lifestyle, but you are just working to satisfy your ego. All they need is your love and attention.
- People are not mind readers; articulate what’s bothering you. Just because one person can tell when you’re not doing well doesn’t mean others will be able to do it too. Talk does not let things not sit well with you while the person causing the trouble is out there living their best life.
- Take your mind’s well-being very seriously. As a friend, please pay attention to that friend who is always looking strong and having their life together. As a strong friend, you can only do so much for other people until it hits you that you, too, need to replenish your cup. Take a step back and get the necessary help you need unapologetically.
- Fighting parents, do not let your children get tangled up in your issues. They did not ask to be brought into this world. You owe them at least peace of mind while they grow up. Take time out for a couple of days and work on your problems.
- There is no shortcut to success. It would be best if you went through that pain to learn to be stronger. Remember, pain is a must suffering is a choice.
- Your offspring always look up to you to set an example for them to follow. They will challenge you when they see you are not standing up for yourself, as they have observed.
The overall thing that stood out for me this season is that family is not only people we are related to by blood but people who will be there for you when you are going through a hard time.
Read what season 1 I took out of it here.